God, Persistence, Strength


“There can be no rainbow without a cloud and a storm” J.H. Vincent

In life is it fair to expect the best and nothing less? Is it appropriate to assume that life should be easy and stress free? The bible says that the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy but that God wants you to have a happy fulfilling life. Why is it then, that I have found since I have decided to change my life to become a woman of God I have had more turmoil and issues in my life? I have faced numerous attacks and have even experienced attacks on my children.

What I am in the process of mastering is the reality that there can be no rainbows without the clouds and storms. Without the storms we would not truly appreciate the rainbow that comes after. With God on my side I have now become an enemy to the devil, a target for him to try to manipulate back into worldly things. Like Jesus I too will be tested and I need to be prepared for these trails and tribulations. Knowing God is knowing that you have the victory and keeping faith through the midst of the struggle that this too shall past.

I love rainbows and therefore I must embrace the moments that make the rainbows remarkable. I too am like a rainbow perfectly flawed and I am the result of all things that were made perfect through God. Without my many obstacles my story would be bland. Without my shadowy past my future wouldn’t be so bright. We must learn to endure all and in the process member that with God on our side every thing that seems so wrong will be used to glorify his name.

I encourage you all to look at the clouds with enthusiasm knowing as they past the rainbow will become clearer. Live life truly enjoying each moment and taking time to learn each lesson so that we have no need to repeat our mistakes.


Dear God;

Thank you for waking me up for another amazing day to glorify your name. Thank you God for your many promises and thank you for giving us strength to endure all of the obstacles in our way. God without you we are nothing, I humbly ask you to help me to see the silver lining in each cloud. Help me to face each storm with the faith that it will make us stronger and bring us closer to you. You are amazing God. Thank you for your mercy.


Failure, PURPOSE

Failure as a Fuel

Thomas Edison once said, “I failed my way to success.” These simple words mean so much to me that I decided to write today about failure and how it can be used as a fuel.

Often during difficult situations we find ourselves questioning God and why he allows his people to be tempted and tried. I have learned through time that it is my most difficult times that build my character the most. The trials and tribulations that I have encountered can be contributed to my greatest strengths. For instance as a teenage mother who was living with my mother I was often rebellious and angry because of many things that I encountered during my childhood. After my mother decided to kick me and my daughter out of her house I was forced to grow up. The anger became motivation and that motivation caused me to obtain a college degree, find stable housing and to become situated in my career. Without this moment of my mother pushing me out of her nest I don’t think I would be as far as I am now.

In our moment of despair and uncertainty we must always lean on Gods words. God said he did not give us a spirit of fear. We must not be afraid of what is ahead but instead remember that we have enough to endure whatever is placed ahead of us. God said that everything we encounter can be used for his greater glory. All of the things I was embarrassed about is what makes my testimony more interesting and easier for other people in my situation to relate to. God said in our weakness his strength is made perfect so even if we cant believe that we are strong enough just knowing that we have a mighty and merciful God in our corner is enough to get us through.

Failure is needed in order to succeed. I was told to reach for the stars and if I fail at least I would land on a cloud. Those words have stuck with me since my high school graduation and has caused me to push through some of my most difficult days. The greater the purpose that is placed on your life the greater will be the obstacles that you have to overcome to achieve. Whenever you are faced with something that seems bigger and greater than you please remember you have a legion of angels behind you and as long as you have faith you can do all things through Christ who strengthen you. Choose to use your failure as your fuel.


Dear God;

Thank you for blessing me with another day to live in your glory. Thank you for giving me the strength to overcome everything just to be here where you want me to be. God please protect me so that I can stand in the midst of all of the many traps the devil has set before me. God the devil came to steal, kill and destroy but with you I have victory and can not be slain.

God you are my strength and my redeemer. Please help me to keep your promises buried in my spirit so that I can remember what you said although my reality will show me differently. God please help me to see the silver lining in every cloud and to use all of my life experiences to glorify you Father. Have your way with me Lord. Use me to show others how graceful, loving and protecting you are. I love you God. Thank you for all you have done and for all you are doing. In Jesus name we pray.





Communication, GOALS, Love, PURPOSE, relationships

But By Weight

This morning I read a quote from Proverbs which states “deliver your words not by number but by weight”. During my journey of self discovery I have encountered many quotes relating to the power of the tongue and how it is better to speak less and listen more. This particular quote stuck with me because it inspired me to choose my words wisely and the quantity can never replace quality.

Growing up I was always told it is not what you say but how you say it. Now that I am older and have experiences many communication related issues, I do believe that choice of words can influence the way the a conversation flows. Knowing who you are speaking to (your audience) is equally as important because you can choose the correct words to use that would impact the listener. I noticed that when speaking to my son he benefits from positive reinforcement. Being a toddler he can sometimes choose to take the path which is not available to him, For instance, if I cook steak for dinner I can say to him “Hey son, do you want steak or pizza?” His response is usually along the lines of “Mommy I want shrimp!” which clearly was not an option. So in order to manipulate him into choosing one of the choices I would instead say, “Hey son, you are growing so big and strong. I know you want to be a super hero like spider man so which food do you think would give you the most super power? Is it the steak or the pizza?”. At this point he is so enthralled with the idea of being compared to Spider-man he would eat anything.

I must admit. Changing my communication technique, remaining mindful of what I am saying and who I am saying it to has greatly improved all of my relationships. I have a better understanding with my coworkers and less arguments with my significant other. Colossians 4:6 says Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Your response to your boss should not be the same as your response to your mate. Proverbs 15:28  states The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.

Whether your goal is to improve your relationships or to be more aligned with the word of God changing your communication style and improving communication techniques is beneficial. Take the time today to listen more than you speak. Spend time analyzing your responses and consider how they would impact the receiver. Learn a new vocabulary word or try learning another language to broaden your communication style.


Father God thank you for blessing me with the opportunity to think and speak freely. Lord please make sure that the words of my mouth are all aligned with your purpose. Father please humble me so that I am listening to learn and not to respond. God please protect and bless my relationships so that they flourish and glorify your name. God you are amazing, through you anything is possible. Amen.

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Love, relationships

Camels Back 

I wrote this poem months ago and lost it in my notes. What good is art if you don’t allow anyone to see it. & so I share:

I can not love again
I have nothing to give 

I’m constantly asking god

Why love is important to live 

I once loved a man so strong 

It broke the camels back 

I know my love was unbearable and I have to deal with that

Now my heart Has closed down and the love can no longer form

That’s when I deal with inquisitive minds who question what went wrong 

I can not love again 

I can not bear the pain 

To see your smile to feel your touch 

It hurts to hear your name 

And when this dark cloud passes 

I pray I don’t forget 

The scars that love has left me should never be dismissed 

So here I stand heart in my hand 

Trying to soothe my thoughts 

Facing my realities and confronting all my fears

Fleeing from love with hopes of never ending up here

See I once loved a man so strong 

It broke the camels back

And since my love is unbearable I have to face that fact 


10 Years

Blog Challenge Day #2

The challenge of writing daily has been one that I have NOT mastered yet. I guess that is why it is called a challenge. I started this challenge a few weeks ago and I have so far progressed to Day #2. So here we are, the question is where would I like to be in ten years.

Although ten years sounds like a long time, having being here for quite a few decades I would venture to say time truly flies. Setting a goal for ten years from now is something that I can truly visualize and measure because 10 years will be here before I know it. Ten years from now I will be a different woman completely. My goal is that I would have perfected my gifts to the point where others would be able to benefit from my gifts.

My goal is to give back to my community and to contribute to society so that changes can be made. I know that a lot can happen in ten years and I truly believe that God has placed me here to make an impact. In 10 years I see myself at the manifestation stage where all of my dreams, desires and abilities collide.

God says that his plans for my life far exceed anything that can be humanly imagined. Since I choose to believe the promises of God I know that where I will be in ten years through the grace of God is far bigger than my dreams. I am so excited to see my life during these times because my dreams are big and I would love to see bigger.


Father God you are amazing. Thank you for the purpose and the promises that you have placed over my life. I realize that I am here to live out your glory and to lead others to your throne. God thank you for placing such amazing gifts in my spirit. Thank you for protecting me from the traps of the devil. He who is in me is greater than he who is in the world and I thank you for keeping me Father. For you said God that you are always with me even to the end of age. I ask that you make my days filled with purpose and please keep me focused so that everyday I am glorifying you Father. Thank you for blessing me in the years to come. In Jesus name



Relationship Status

Hello beautiful world. This blog is a goal of mine which is a work in progress. Writing every day inspires me but finding the time to do so is often difficult. In order to encourage myself to write daily and to ensure that I have interesting topics to write about, I decided to take a ninety day blog challenge. This here is day one!

Topic: Relationship Status

I am currently in a relationship. I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. My “boyfriend” is an amazing guy who has so much potential. He makes me laugh, he is extremely handsome. The best part about our relationship is that we have a lot of qualities in common. I feel so lucky to have someone in my life that I could honestly say is a true friend. I love our friendship. Often times I worry if our relationship would work out in the long run but I never doubt if our friendship would last.

Pros: Makes me laugh, handsome, great foundation of friendship, share some of the same dreams and goals, we both love each other, we both want the relationship to work

Cons: he’s not easily motivated, talks more than acts, battles of issues of infidelity, manipulative, hes not financially responsible

As you can see the pro’s are great but the cons are major deal breakers, if I choose to let them be. My goal is to stay in my relationship and to try to make it work. I have faith that God works miracles. In my previous relationship I was engaged and we lived together. From the outside looking in my relationship appeared to be stable but truly I was miserable. Now with my current relationship, it appears to be unstable. Most of my family and friends comment that we are unevenly yoked. This fact may be true but we are both willing to make the changes necessary to make it work.

On thing I admire about my relationship is that it has exposed flaws in me that I never knew existed. My partner inspires me to become a better woman daily. If we end up separating tomorrow there is a wealth of experiences that I can say I have benefited from while being with him. I pray that if it is in God’s will for us to be together that we will.


When the Snow Falls

Matthew 6:31-34

As I sit by the window and watch the snow fall life begins to set in. Just a few days ago I celebrated my 30th birthday. Although to some it may seem like a number worth celebrating the big 3-0 caused me to take a long hard look at my life. As I began to closely analyze where I came from and where I am heading the joke about time flying appears to be an understatement. Thoughts of prior plans, goals and wishes ran through my mind. Just when I think I have life all figured out the big question came to me: Are you living life to its full purpose?

Often we become so wrapped up with work and securing our future that we lose track of what is important to us. Irreplaceable things such as relationships and health diminish when compared to making money and paying bills. As we venture through life I urge you all to remember that in order to ensure you are living your life to its full potential begin to incorporate these three important elements into your daily schedule.

  1. Thankfulness: There’s a quote that reads: “Be kind, Be thoughtful, Be genuine, but most of all Be thankful.” Throughout life we become so wrapped up in goals and visualizing the future things we want that we often forget to show appreciation for the things we currently have. Living in the present and being thankful for what we have will open the door for us to receive more. Despite our hardships there is always someone who is in a worst situation, God wants us to show appreciation for what he has done and for what he is doing. Being thankful and in a constant state of appreciation with allow us to be peaceful which in turn can improve productivity. Scriptures Psalms 136:2-3, 2 Corinth 9:8, James 1:2, Phil 1:9-10, Colo 3:15
  2. Spend Time with God daily: We all have 24 hours a day to live life and be purposeful. What we do with those hours will ultimately determine our future and our fate. Be purposeful with your time and be intent on spending it doing positive things. By spending time in prayer and spending time studying the word daily we will begin to fill ourselves up with positive Godly vibes which we get us through all of the days whether they be tough or great we will be equipped with the tools needed to deal with them. When we are filled with the power of God it will show and  the people around us will be greatly attracted to that power. Through our daily interactions we can minister to people without intention and we can lead others to God without knowing. Building a relationship with God will ensure that we are living according to our purpose because God will began to speak to us and to lead us to our destiny. If ever you want to know the purpose of something you must consult with the maker. Scriptures: Prov 16:20, Psalm 16:8, Psalm 32:7, Prov 3:5-6, Psalm 84:11, James 4:8, Matt 6:33
  3. Love Others: Loving others is one way you can ensure that you are living according to your purpose. This is one of the ten commandments which has been esteemed as one of the most important commandments. Loving others can range from helping a stranger carry groceries to visiting sick children in the hospital on your spare time. Love comes in many shapes and forms. Love should not only be extended to family and close friends, love should be shown to everyone you encounter even those who hate you or wrong you in some way. Jesus is a prime example of how often we should show love. Jesus never turned his back on people he even loved those who did not understand him or agree with him. By extending love we can ensure that we are living in our God given purpose. Scriptures: Eph 4:32, Prov 3:3-4, Lam 3:22, Phil 2:3-44, John 13:34-35

I pray that this three suggestions will lead you to find greater purpose in your life. It is my hope that when you have a moment to reflect on your life you will find areas in which you can implement one or more of these routines into your life. Remember that we are nothing without God and although the big house and luxury car may be a dream for most of us obtaining these things will not fulfill the purpose that we are here on Earth to complete. For what shall it profit man to gain the whole world but to lose his soul in the process.